What is love?
What is the difference between the love you have for a brother or sister and the love you have for a wife or husband?
What is the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone?
What do you do when the one you are in love with, loves you as a brother or sister?
These are a few of the questions that keep me awake at night. A few of the thoughts I can not shake.
posted by Broken Hubby @ 2:45 AM
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Weeeeeeeeeeellll...I think you know one of the most prominent answers to those questions: S-E-X.
But didn't we cover that in the last post? :)
The good news is, that I think it's pretty normal for a couple to become so comfortable that they aren't "in love" (which I define as the butterflies, nervous feeling) & do tend to be so comfortable w/ the other person that it feels like loving a sibling. I remember hearing something that really kinda struck me in regards to this a while back (I don't remember who said it or where I read it): "Marriage is when you start having sex with your family" or something like that. But, it's true! Your wife & you have kids & you are a family! Kinda icky when you think about it that way, huh? (JK)
As far as the S-E-X goes, my suggestion is to compromise - if Deb is only into it once a month (or less, lol), then make it quality, not quantity. Do something different, like go parking or role-play or whatever turns you guys on that is something new! I know that when I was married, I was rarely "in the mood". You get tired, annoyed, worried, etc. & all you want sometimes is to be left alone, rather than feel like someone else wants something from you. I really do think it would help if you compromised on how often & hey, you might be surprised - maybe if you play hard to get, she'll initiate it...? Good luck & don't forget to send pictures...snicker, snicker...;)
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